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The journey to making M & C daddies!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-4829140546058766692018-05-16T12:54:00.001-07:002018-05-16T12:54:07.533-07:00A long overdue update...It was nearly two years ago when M & C first asked me about carrying sibling for Adam (now 4 years old). After some consideration, some negotiation, some waiting for the right time and some unforeseen delays, we finally transferred a beautiful 5 day embryo in early October 2017.<br />
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Everything went perfectly, the embryo was hatching at the time of transfer and was placed in just the perfect spot. I felt calm and relaxed and SO positive leaving the reproductive endocrinologist's office that day. We were fortunate enough to be successful on the first try (something we will never take for granted!), just a few days later an early pregnancy test revealed...<br />
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And a few weeks after that, an ultrasound showed one sweet little baby with a heart beating strong!</div>
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Just before Christmas, it was revealed that Adam would be having a baby SISTER! Then, in April, we caught a glimpse of her little smile in 4D.</div>
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Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-26168703069970831142014-01-06T20:25:00.001-07:002014-01-06T20:27:57.426-07:00Postpartum, Placenta Pills & PumpingI've had lots of people ask me how the postpartum period is going, with this being a different situation than a typical pregnancy so here it goes!<br />
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Physically, my recovery has been going very well. I was fortunate enough to not have any tearing in the perineal area (yes, despite birthing a 10+lb baby) so that has been a breeze. I've had some swelling and headaches the first few days but other then that, things have been great!<br />
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Emotionally, it is typical of women to have a bit of a hormone crash after childbirth, this is actually caused by the birth of the placenta which carries all the hormones that supported the pregnancy. When the placenta exits the body, so do the hormones, at a very rapid pace! This is one of the reasons that I decided to have Crystal at <a href="http://injoyablebirth.com/" target="_blank">Injoyable Birth</a> encapsulate the placenta for me. Placenta encapsulation is something I have never done before but I had read about all the benefits, listed <a href="http://injoyablebirth.com/services/placenta-encapsulation/" target="_blank">here</a> and knew that it was something that could be very beneficial for this pregnancy.<br />
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So day 2 and 3 after the birth, my hormones were going crazy...I was overly emotional, crying over literally NOTHING, quick to get upset about things that otherwise wouldn't bother me (as much)...think PMS to the extreme! This had absolutely nothing to do with "missing the baby" or anything of the sort - baby Adam is right where he belongs and I'm so, so happy about that - it was simply my body reacting to the situation. I felt like I was a beast to live with (though my husband insists I was not, that's how I felt!) and then on day 3, Crystal brought my placenta pills over and I noticed a difference immediately! They are called "happy pills" for a reason and though I didn't experience that kind of emotional swing after my own pregnancies (or maybe I did but was too busy taking care of a baby to notice it??), I definitely think placenta encapsulation would be a huge benefit to any woman postpartum - so if you are pregnant, consider it, the placenta is a powerful thing!<br />
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The other thing I have been busy with is PUMPING! Around the clock actually, I'm pretty much a slave to the breastpump. I've been pumping every 2 hours during the day and 3 hours at night, at 2am, 5am, 7am, 9am, 11am, 1pm, 3pm, 5pm, 7pm, 9pm, and 11pm WHEW! Each pumping session is 20 minutes long but by the time I prep everything before hand and clean pump parts afterward, it takes 40 minutes for each session. So, if you do the math, I am devoting over SEVEN HOURS per day to pumping. It's a lot of work (I've breastfed my own children, from the tap, and trust me it's a thousand times easier than exclusively pumping) but, from what I have read, it's important to put in the work in the beginning to get a good supply established and then around 12 weeks postpartum (when supply and demand takes over production instead of hormones, which control breastmilk production up until that point) I can back away from the breastpump a bit. My plan is to gift breastmilk to baby Adam for the time that I am off work, I dropped 100+oz off with M & C today!<br />
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When I go back to work I will be donating to a milk bank that compensates for breastmilk donations to help offset the time commitment that pumping takes. I knew, going into surrogacy, that I would definitely be pumping after the birth - there are many benefits of breastfeeding/pumping for myself as well - and I couldn't imagine giving birth and then letting my milk dry up and have such a great opportunity go to waste! So if you see me around and I look tired despite not having a baby - now you know why!<br />
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<br />Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-40021332554706892362013-12-31T14:40:00.000-07:002013-12-31T20:07:09.550-07:00Adam David: A Birth Story<div style="text-align: center;">
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Oh Adam, how you kept everyone waiting and guessing! I will be honest, I did not really love that about you for those last couple weeks of pregnancy but I sure love that about you now. I'm so happy that you got to choose your birth day, that you got to join your Daddy and Papa earthside in YOUR way, on YOUR time, and that you were kind enough to go easy on me too! What a thoughtful little guy :) You waited until 41 weeks and 5 days to show your precious little face but I think everyone would agree, you were worth the wait!<br />
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Your birthing day began with a typical middle of the night trip to the bathroom, I woke up at 1:00am and as I got out of bed and walked to the bathroom I felt fluid trickling down my legs the whole way. I wasn't sure if it was amniotic fluid or not at first, this had never happened to me before, I have always had the bag of water ruptured artificially so I definitely was not expecting this! At any rate, I wasn't having contractions so I decided to get back in bed and wait to see if contractions would start. It didn't take long! I had a couple contractions that were ten minutes apart, then 7 minutes apart, then 5 minutes apart and by then I just couldn't lie down through them anymore. I asked my husband to get me a towel so I could get out of bed without getting amniotic fluid on the floor again and he just laid in bed next time me, half asleep, and said he was looking for it. I suggested that he look in the bathroom ;) I got out of bed and stood up and swayed through a few contractions before I decided that these were getting intense enough that I wanted to be in the water. At 1:50am, I called our awesome midwife, Stephanie, to let her know what was going on. She asked if I was ready for her to come and I told her I thought it would be a good idea. And then at 2:00am, my husband called your Papa to let him know it was time! He said your Papa sounded very calm and by 2:20am he texted me that they were on the way! I floated around in the birth tub, with the jets swirling the water, and breathed deeply in and out through the contractions. I could feel you moving around inside me and remember smiling to myself as I enjoyed those last kicks. By 2:30am, Stephanie had arrived and quickly checked on your heart tones and got to work setting up the birth supplies. I talked and laughed with Stephanie and my husband, breathing through the contractions which were coming closer and closer together. I remember a few of the contractions I started feeling a little "pushy" but kept breathing through them, I did not want your Daddy and Papa to miss this... and maybe I was in a little bit of denial that it could be happening so quickly! Around 3:15am, your Daddy and Papa arrived - I was happy to see them there but was deep in my work by then, I could feel you moving further down with each contraction and soon I told my husband that you were coming. I think he was a little surprised! Within a couple of contractions, you were crowning and then I pushed your head out and said "ooh that feels better!" - which sounds so funny, but it did! And with another push, the rest of your body slipped earthside into your Papa's hands. He lifted you out of the water and just like that, at 3:35am, you and Daddy and Papa officially became a family. They ADORE you Adam, you are one lucky little guy!<br />
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I held you while we waited for your cord to stop pulsing, since we were still attached, then your Daddy cut your cord and we got out of the tub. While Stephanie tended to me, your Daddy and Papa cuddled with you, skin-to-skin, and got to know you a little better :) <br />
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Soon, they were ready for me to nurse you so you could get that very important first milk - I think you liked it because you nursed for quite awhile! When you were done, Stephanie weighed you - 10lbs 3oz - measured you - 21 1/2" - and checked you out from head to toe. You checked out perfectly in every way! <br />
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When we were both stable, Stephanie and her assistant (Crystal, who didn't make it in time for the birth but who we all love!) left but I was so happy that you and your Daddy and Papa stayed for a couple more hours and that each of my children, as well as myself, got to hold you and love on you before you went home to start your life together! What a precious little blessing you are and I feel so honored to be part of your story, which is just beginning! Thank you Adam, and thank you M and C - I love you all so much and can't wait to watch you grow together.<br />
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<br />Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-35711924402047944542013-12-21T07:53:00.001-07:002013-12-21T07:53:14.360-07:00"I Am Patient and Waiting""I Am Patient and Waiting"...or at the very least, I'm good at repeating that mantra until I've convinced myself!<br />
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We are now 40 weeks plus 2 days into baby baking and waiting patiently for Baby A to make his arrival. In addition, I've managed to come down with a terrible cold including a nasty cough/congestion/headaches/the whole nine yards. So at this point, I'm grateful that Baby A (and my body) have decided to wait, maybe until I'm feeling well enough to better cope with labor - three cheers for my body's innate knowledge of when the time is right!<br />
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So for those who have been asking...<br />
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YES! I'm still very pregnant! And I'll be sure to update when that changes, it could be awhile, and that's ok! :) Love you all!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-45736915074893934382013-12-10T11:40:00.000-07:002013-12-10T11:40:04.957-07:00The Watched PotBaby A has now been baking for 38 weeks plus 5 days, and as I'm growing increasingly uncomfortable (and larger), I'm feeling like the watched pot! Our estimated due date is only 9 days away but a "due date" is just that - an estimation - and my body really likes baking babies, so I suspect that date will come and go with Baby A still nestled snuggly in his comfy spot. But this fast approaching date often presents the question "will you be induced?" - luckily, my favorite midwife wrote a blog post on this very topic so rather than hash it all out again, I will let her say it more perfectly than I ever could - please check out her blog post on <a href="http://www.nurturingheartsbirthservices.com/blog/?p=584" target="_blank">Induction of Labor</a>.<br />
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While some days leave me feeling more miserable than others (directly related to how much sleep I managed to get the night before!), I'm fine with that, really, because it's a bittersweet thing to see this journey coming to a close. I have loved every minute, even the hard ones, of bringing this miracle to life for M & C - and while the journey is coming to a close for me, a new, more fabulous journey is just beginning for them! So the birth supplies are gathered, the birth pool is filled, Baby A and I have been soaking in the warm water as I find the time, and we will continue to wait until he decides on the perfect time to join his daddies earthside!<br />
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Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-49141991276111720052013-11-21T09:03:00.002-07:002013-11-21T09:03:40.417-07:0036 weeks!Today, Baby A is officially 36 weeks - full term! And yesterday, M, C, our amazing midwife and her wonderful assistant came to our home for the "home visit", signifying that Baby A is now far enough along that a homebirth is safe. All the birth supplies have been gathered together in one place and the birth pool will be delivered on Monday! Of course, I'm not expecting any baby action for 4-5 more weeks but we are all prepared for when he decides the time is right.<br />
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M & C have had several baby showers, it is really fun for me to see all their friends and family so excited for them - what a loved little guy Baby A will be! They have taken baby-wearing classes, carefully selected baby gear, researched cloth diapers, watched birth videos, decorated the nursery and are so excited for their impending arrival! I couldn't be happier for them or more proud, they are going to be such amazing daddies, I can't wait to see them in action!<br />
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As this pregnancy is winding down, I'm experiencing many common end-of-pregnancy conundrums, maybe some of you can relate! So without further delay...<br />
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Happy end-of-pregnancy, friends! I can see the finish line!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-28640016558863717912013-10-17T09:53:00.001-07:002013-10-17T09:53:47.931-07:003rd trimester, 3D ultrasound & a wedding!It's been a long time since I've updated but things have been moving along smoothly so there hasn't been much to say! We are now in the 3rd trimester, I'm 31 weeks pregnant with just 9 weeks (give or take) to go and, of course, the aches and pains that come along with it. M & C have been busily planning and preparing for baby A, they are an adorable combination of excited and anxious. We went for a 3D ultrasound at 28 weeks and wow, technology has come a long way, it's so amazing what they can see with ultrasound these days! At the time, baby A weighed approx. 3.2lbs (he's likely close to 4.5lbs now) and he has been consistently measuring about a week ahead, I'm not expecting him to be a tiny little guy!<br />
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In other news, M & C traveled to southern California this week to exchange wedding vows - congratulations you two! So very excited for your growing family!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-14257778295281120482013-08-01T09:41:00.002-07:002013-08-01T09:41:45.227-07:00Halfway!Today marks 20 weeks of pregnancy, the halfway point. I met M & C at <a href="http://preciouspredictions.com/index2.php#/home/" target="_blank">Precious Predictions</a> (Sunny is amazing, by the way, highly recommended if you are local) for the big mid-pregnancy ultrasound. They surprised me with these:<br />
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You can try to tell me that's not the cutest thing ever, but I won't believe you. Love them, they are so sweet. Thanks guys!<br />
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The mid-pregnancy ultrasound is really the fascinating one, in my opinion, it's so amazing the things they can see during an in-depth ultrasound...from the brain, to the spine, to the nostrils, to the heart, to the kidneys, to the bladder, to the tips of his itty bitty toes - Baby A is looking perfect and healthy, which makes us all happy! And he doesn't have a huge head, which makes me happy :) Pictures coming soon!<br />
Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-7427108085729118252013-06-30T16:53:00.001-07:002013-06-30T16:53:47.858-07:00It's a BOY for M & C!Baby A was more than happy to show his stuff yesterday! We had a fun ultrasound and even got some very...revealing 3D pictures haha No doubt about it, in December, M & C will welcome their little SONshine earthside! They have also made an "official" Facebook announcement, it was really fun to see their friends' reactions.<br />
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As for me, I have started feeling little kicks and jabs here and there, and even had a stranger comment about the pregnancy this weekend - I guess it's getting to be obvious now at 15 weeks! I've been feeling well, in general, and have been avoiding the Arizona heat as much as possible!<br />
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Looking forward to our next midwife appointment on July 8th!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-47683211962377374772013-06-11T12:14:00.000-07:002013-06-11T12:14:02.451-07:00Ramblings of a SurrogateThe most common question I get from those who don't understand surrogacy is "but isn't it going to be hard for you to give up the baby?" I always answer simply "no, it's not, because it's not my baby."<br />
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Confession: I don't often think about being pregnant. This is a complete 180 from my own pregnancies where I walked around giddy with excitement, constantly planning, from the moment the pregnancy test showed 2 lines. I'm not looking at what stage of development the baby is in each week. I'm not picking out baby names, researching baby gear or preparing my children for a sibling. I'm not calculating how many years the new baby will be behind his/her youngest sibling in school and if they'll share any high school years together. I'm not planning how to best set up the mini crib next to our bed, who the baby will eventually room with or which spot is best for baby's car seat in the car. <br />
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These things don't make me happy or sad, they are just facts. They are WHY it's not going to be hard for me to "give up the baby", because it's NOT my baby, it never has been, it was never intended to be! I'm not planning for and dreaming about having a new little one around...M & C are!<br />
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I do LOVE hearing how M & C are preparing for their new little one, their excitement and the newness of everything to them. Sometimes they tell me things that make me silently chuckle, the naiveté of first time parents, having been there myself...oh some of the silly things I did! Sometimes I offer advice, maybe I can save them some of the trial and error, but in the end I know that this is THEIR journey, THEIR baby story, and finding their own way will make them more confident parents. And they are going to be amazing.<br />
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P.S. Gender scan is scheduled for June 29th! Any guesses? <br />
Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-64248249906673037212013-06-06T12:42:00.001-07:002013-06-06T16:04:09.944-07:00Bye bye first trimester, HELLO second trimester!Today marks 12 weeks of pregnancy and the beginning of the second trimester, a very exciting milestone! M, C and myself went to our first appointment with my midwife, Stephanie, and her assistant Crystal. These two women are both amazing and so perfectly in tune with our unique situation, I could not ask for a better birth team! We spent an hour talking to them, asking questions and, of course, listening to that sweet baby's heartbeat! Stephanie found it right away, beating in the 150's, such beautiful music to our ears! <br />
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I am happy to be officially DONE with meds, as of yesterday, feeling good and excited to be a "normal" prego (as opposed to one on hormone supplements haha)! I will share soon my feelings on this pregnancy and how it has been different than my own pregnancies, for those who are interested!<br />
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Until then, we have another appointment to see Stephanie and Crystal in 4 weeks but M & C are very excited to see what kind of baby is cooking so in just 3 weeks we'll be going for a quick "fun" ultrasound to take a peek at the gender!<br />
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up in numbers and this little bean appears to be healthy and growing quickly!
We will have our first ultrasound on Monday 4/29; because it’s a very early
sonogram (we’ll be 6 weeks + 4 days) they will be looking for three main things
– how many do they see (there should not be any surprises here as we only
transferred one but there is a small chance, as with any pregnancy, that the
embryo could have split into identical twins), how big they are and the
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The embryologist said that the embryo should continue to grow and implant tonight or tomorrow - of course, we are all hoping that that's exactly what happens!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-37135299725330802322013-02-25T12:20:00.000-07:002013-02-25T13:25:43.003-07:00Back in the SaddleI'm very excited to share that after some discussion, re-signing of contracts and meeting with the fertility doctor - M, C and myself are ready to try again to make them parents! We just got our new calendar and are set for an April 2nd frozen embryo transfer! I am already on the birth control pill (which will allow Dr. L to control my cycle while we prepare) and I will begin injectable meds a week from today. M & C have one frozen 5 day embryo leftover from our last cycle and Dr. L thinks we have a good chance with this embryo. We are all so excited and definitely covet all the positive thoughts and good juju you can muster! Here we go again!!!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-81451801058407823962012-10-01T11:40:00.000-07:002012-10-01T11:40:51.642-07:00Another Door ClosesI am sad to report that after careful consideration, M & C have decided, for financial reasons, that they will not be prepared to cycle again until July 2013. They have terminated our contract early, as is within their right, but would like me to wait for them until July. <br />
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This came as a complete shock to me and I am...a little confused, a little hurt and very sad. But I do believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe the timing is just not right - my family and I have a very busy year ahead of us between school and dance and chorus and moving...maybe this is the universe's way of telling me not to take on too much at once. Maybe July will be better for all of us. Or maybe it just wasn't meant to be...maybe there's another couple out there who needs me more urgently. <br />
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I don't know what the reason is yet, so I will wait until it becomes apparent to me before I decide my next move. Thank you all for your support, it has meant so much to me!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-61020163018554150042012-09-07T15:23:00.000-07:002012-10-01T11:41:18.603-07:00Beta Results Are InUnfortunately, we were not successful this cycle. I have been taking pregnancy tests all week at home so, while the news wasn't surprising, I am devastated for M & C. This is an emotionally and physically draining process for me but it's their child that we are trying to bring to fruition and nothing compares to that. I am hopeful that we'll be able to try again soon.<br />
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To M & C - I love you guys and I know this process, while painful at times, will make the reward that much sweeter for you in the end (((HUGS)))Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-80311398247948829372012-08-31T09:51:00.000-07:002012-08-31T09:51:53.084-07:00One in the Oven and One in the Freezer!I received the exciting news from M this morning that one of the embryos that the embryologist was growing out made it to a day 5 as a grade 2 and was frozen, yesterday, for future use! Hopefully a year or two in the future ;o) M and C are thrilled and I'm so happy for them!<br />
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As for me, I'm having a lot of pain and soreness from the progesterone injections, particularly in my right hip for some reason, but hanging in there until testing day! I survived bedrest and am now on limited activity (only allowed once up/down the stairs per day, no cleaning, lifting anything heavier than a 1/2 gallon of milk, no exercise, etc)...so I'm feeling pretty worthless around the house here but I guess I should enjoy it while it lasts!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-91016571281848907572012-08-28T18:34:00.001-07:002012-08-29T07:26:02.286-07:00Transfer Complete!This morning, when the clinic called, they had one 5-cell embryo and one 7-cell embryo so the plan, at that time, was to transfer the 7-cell embryo. But within 6 hours, just before transfer, the 5-cell embryo had grown to 8-cells and the 7-cell embryo was still at 7-cells so the decision was made to transfer the one 8-cell embryo.<br />
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This is the 7-cell embryo that they will grow out to day 5 or 6 to see if they can freeze it...more on that later this week!<br />
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Both the 7-cell and 8-cell embryos looked great but since the 8-cell had a recent "growth spurt", it was decided that it would be a better choice.<br />
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The transfer itself was easy and "perfect", Dr. L was able to place the embryo exactly where he wanted it. They did do <a href="http://www.advancedfertility.com/hatching.htm" target="_blank">assisted hatching</a> beforehand so hopefully the embryo will hatch out of its shell over the next few days and find a nice place to snuggle in for 9 months!<br />
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I return for a blood pregnancy test on September 7th!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-869019468073884162012-08-28T09:39:00.000-07:002012-08-28T09:39:30.606-07:00Transfer TODAY!The clinic just called and there is one little embryo that is the star of the show right now so we will be transferring that one this afternoon to give him/her the best chance to thrive in a more natural environment. The others will be grown out to see if they can be frozen for future use, if needed. I'll be on bedrest for 24 hours after the transfer so I'm sure I'll be back with another update! Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-38365087398168373332012-08-26T12:18:00.001-07:002012-08-26T12:18:26.350-07:00Donor Egg Thaw & Fertilization ResultsYesterday morning I received a text message from M with the somewhat disappointing news that only 4 of the 6 frozen donor eggs survived the thaw. *sigh* Not how we were hoping to get this started! Of course we agonized all day yesterday, then today we got the exciting news that ALL FOUR EGGS FERTILIZED! *happy dance*<br />
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So things are looking good right now, we just have to wait and see how the four little survivers grow! Hopefully they'll do well and we can do a day 5 transfer on Thursday, we should know more by Tuesday!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-5937125149347461232012-08-20T11:50:00.002-07:002012-08-25T22:52:29.968-07:00"I'm really happy with everything I see here..."...said the doctor to the surrogate, while checking out her uterus via ultrasound. <br />
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Today was my last appointment with Dr. L until transfer day, which we can now officially say is <em>next week</em> (thanks to M for pointing that out to me!), and Dr. L is super happy with how everything looks - which is awesome to hear. Gotta love when your uterus cooperates!<br />
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This weekend is going to be very exciting! On Saturday, the clinic will thaw 6 eggs from M and C's selected egg donor (which were frozen after a previous cycle). According to Dr. L, stastically, 5 or 6 are expected to survive the thaw. Because freezing of the eggs can make the outer layer of the egg harder to penetrate, they will be using <a href="http://www.advancedfertility.com/icsi.htm" target="_blank">ICSI</a> to help encourage fertilization. Typically, they will check for fertilization 24 hours later - so Sunday morning. Again, statistically, they expect about 2/3 of the eggs to fertilize. This should leave us with 3 or 4 embryos. Dr. L will want to see which embryo will be the best to transfer so they will observe the embryos over a 3 to 5 day period. Some of them will not grow and there is a small chance that we will only be left with one embryo by day 3, if that's the case, we will do a day 3 transfer on August 28th. More likely, they will continue to grow the embryos until August 30th, which will be day 5, or the <a href="http://www.advancedfertility.com/blastocy.htm" target="_blank">blastocyst stage</a>. At this stage it is easier to select the best one to transfer. Depending on the thickness of the outer layer of the selected embryo, the embryologist may perform an <a href="http://www.advancedfertility.com/hatching.htm" target="_blank">assisted hatching</a> procedure immediately before transfer, to help encourage implantation. Any remaining embryos will be frozen for future use.<br />
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Then the agonizing wait until I can take a pregnancy test begins!<br />
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P.S. Read the links above if you have the time, the science behind all this is really fascinating!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1003098469706497640.post-49895395100517114062012-08-16T10:29:00.002-07:002012-08-20T11:54:04.807-07:00Appointment Update!I had an ultrasound this morning to check the uterine lining. Dr. L said anything over 7mm is good and mine is *drumroll*.........12.3mm WOOHOO! Dr. L also observed a triple layer pattern, which is considered ideal for implantation. So we're still on for transfer in TWO WEEKS!Sharihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12718779116015144794noreply@blogger.com0